Dating a busy woman
I'm sure that nearly every guy on earth who has reached adulthood has had some girl really, really "into him" before.
For young women right now, we work crazy hours, and we’re busy, and we’re exhausted, and we’re also motived and ambitious.
by Victory Unlimited Girls who are “too busy” to see you are just that. Why I say this to you should be obvious: Do you think for one second that if you were some famous celebrity, athlete, or actor that she liked, that she'd still be too busy to get with you? Now that you're privy to this Intel, the best thing for you to do as a man who is interested in ANY girl, is to do a quick assessment of your situation to determine which category of guy you are to her.
If you're still unsure which category you fit in, here's a hint: If she's put you in any category other than category 3 — then you'd better lock, load, and mobilize your dating/relationship forces towards another more eligible, more agreeable, more available, and more enthusiastic chick. Out of either confusion or unspoken desperation, some guys may be reluctant to eject from these types of situations.
What about this overlaying concern of how sexualized online dating has become? Are these actually models, and are they meant to encourage your users in some way? I will tell you that there are a lot of metrics that go into who you see—how active someone is plays into your queue, how many swipes they have done, how many messages they’ve sent versus how many you’ve sent—and it’s so much more complicated than even I can wrap my head around at times.
To my knowledge, there is nothing taking place that someone would be surfacing [in your queue] that would never swipe on you.
There's nothing like getting with a girl who WANTS to get with you. Some may say to themselves: What if I'm being too hasty?